Posts tagged ‘learning disabilities’

February 15, 2013

The DISH Method: Develop Your Life Skills

by Dave P.

TrainingWheelsThe DISH Method was originally developed to help people overcome public speaking anxiety, but it also works to help people thrive in life.

Relationships

You need certain skills to be successful in life. The most basic is relationships skills. Without them, you’re probably not going to be happy.

Your relationships skills actually begin while you’re still developing in your mother’s womb. If your mother experienced a lot of stress during pregnancy, her body had high levels of cortisol — the stress hormone. Cortisol has the ability to permeate the embryonic sac and affect prenatal brain development. You would have been born with emotional and cognitive problems, which would have had a big impact on your ability to succeed and be happy.

During the first few years of your life, you experienced a tremendous amount of neurological development. During that time, the parts of the brain that were exercised, grew, and the parts that weren’t used were “pruned.” If you weren’t attuned to your mother and father, your endorphin receptors were not developed sufficiently, which affected your ability to experience pleasure later in life. You probably experience less pleasure from relationships than most people and are less happy.

Child abuse affects a person’s confidence, self-esteem, cognitive skills, and ability to have healthy relationships. That’s too big of a topic to go into here, so I’ll cover it more in upcoming posts.

You develop many of your relationship skills while in school. How well you interact with your peers sets the tone for the rest of your life. If you had good friends and didn’t experience much rejection during that time, you built a sense of confidence in your ability to form and maintain close, personal relationships. But if you felt ostracized in school, it probably affected your self-esteem and your personal relationship self-efficacy — confidence in your ability to form healthy, close, personal relationships.

The good news is, your brain is plastic; it continuously changes throughout the lifespan — even into old age. No matter what your emotional or cognitive skill deficiencies, they can be overcome, but it takes work. Contrary to what many doctors would have you believe, there are no pill solutions. While certain medications can help in some cases, it takes hard work to develop your skills.

Education

Unless you live in a socialized country, you need skills in order to be able to earn a living. Your best bet is higher education. While tuition costs have soared during the past 10 or 15 years, the cost of not having an education is much higher. University degrees open the doors to career opportunities.

Understanding

Thousands of years ago, people attributed the things they couldn’t understand to supernatural forces. Today, science has unlocked many of the mysteries of nature. Through understanding of the world around us, we gain wisdom. Fear of the unknown has caused a great amount of suffering. Through study and understanding, we can rid ourselves of those fears.

Skills development is a never ending process

People who continue to learn throughout their lives are less prone to dementia. We can build and maintain our self-esteem by doing our best at everything. Self-growth provides meaning and pleasure in life. Never stop learning and growing.

June 22, 2011

Lifelong Learning is Problematic for People With Reading and Writing Difficulities

by Dave P.

Unless you’re flipping burgers at the local McDonalds, your career probably requires you to continually learn new skills and technologies. Obviously, this can be a problem for people with learning disabilities. A new study show that adult students with reading and writing difficulties struggle in three areas in particular.

“First of all, society implicitly requires individuals to possess certain skills, and those who don’t are in trouble. Secondly it’s a matter of each individual’s attempts to handle his or her problems absorbing the education and to achieve good results. Thirdly, there is an existential dimension where individuals compare themselves with others and feel inferior,” says Nadja Carlsson, a special needs teacher with extensive experience with municipal adult education.

Students with learning disabilities often struggle in college, but those who persevere can find alternative ways to learn and perhaps get extra help from faculty members. Once in the workplace, however, those who have trouble learning may not be given the needed extra time or help to absorb learning materials. Thus, they may experience setbacks in their careers. In comparing themselves to others, their self-esteem can be damaged, which can open the doors to all sorts of other problems such as social anxiety and depression.

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